My year hasn't been the greatest so far but hopefully it will get better. Starting in Sept. of last year my husband and I thought we would be nice to some "friends" of ours and let them stay with us until they were able to get back onto there feet because needless to say NO ONE in there faimly's would help them.  Well I now see why.  Our "friends" had 3 kids, so my household went from a faimly of 3 to a faimly of 8.  I figured they would only be with us for a month or so because they told us that they were buying a trailor and that they just needed to clean it up a bit before they could move in.  Well needless to say one month turned into 5 1/2 months.  YIKES!!!!  They never helped with any of the bills or with buying food, they let there kids take over the house and my daughters room.  I tried to control the situation with setting up some ground rules for ALL the kids (including my own) but that didn't work because they would not make there kids follow the rules.  By the 5th month i was checking my deviant and "she" had posted a journal about my daughter and about how she would rather "shot her than to look at her" and how my daughter was "a drama queen that whinned when she didn't get her way"  what she failed to mention was that her own children had taken over my daughters bedroom, tv, game system, computer and home, and how my daughter was the one who would get into trouble because of her two older boys.  What makes me the maddest about this whole thing is that my "friend" always whinned and cried about how no one understood her and no one liked her and how everyone always took advantage of her but she never realized that her and her husband were taking advantage of me and my husband, that we were paying for everything.  After the big blow up she never once said she was sorry or thank you to us for helping them.  She just left and started to tell people that we took advantage of them, that they paid all the bills, bought all the food, did everything and that my husband and I were the ones going out every weekend to the mall and borders and walmart and other places spending all of are money.  But if that was true then why were my bills past due, why was my morgage past due?  Because we were the ones paying those bills and trying to buy food, and household supplies.  NOT THEM!!!!

Im sorry for ranting about this it just finally got to be to much when this person had the nerve to post that she didn't like inconsiderate people and she is one of them....I HATE LIERS!!!!!

Thanks for listening.....Ow and a SPECIAL THANKS to this "friend" you know who you are, because of what you did I now know how to deal with people like you..